How to Use a Dildo Solo or With a Partner

Dildos are another choice of toy for women who want a naturalistic and a convincing sexual experience with a toy. Also, for the bold ladies who are independent, on their own, and believe in not relying on boys to have that dick shot, dildos are certainly the pick of the bunch. Reviewers are crazy about this item, saying that its ridges and unusual shape make it perfect for enhanced stimulation. Users advise heavy lube usage inflatable didlos, however—especially for extended play. The brand also makes dildos shaped like aliens, centaurs, dragons , clouds, and more.

The small bump close to the neck provides an exciting stretching experience for the vagina during deep penetration. On the other hand, the node after the tapered tip offers the first measure of resistance after penetration, making the thrusting experience exciting. Unlike the realistic-looking dildos, the texture was impactful, and we could articulate the thumps during stroking.

Combine with the We-Vibe Tango bullet vibe for some powerful vibrations, and you have a setup that’s guaranteed to please everyone involved. Technically they do work without any kind of harness, but they require Olmpyian-level pelvic girdle strength to hold in place for any serious in-and-out thrusting. For best results you’ll want to use an open-backed harness or brief-style panties to support the weight of the toy. That’s why we’re recommending the FunFactory Big Boss G5, which is really a vibrator first and dildo second. The smallest size has a 1″ wide shaft and 1.25″ wide head, while the largest has a 1.3″ wide shaft and 1.6″ wide head. Perfect if you want a small dildo in some beautiful color combinations.

But due to the weight they work best when used with a backless harness that keeps the dildo in place and provides pleasure to both parties. Keep in mind toys with a Vac U Lock base tend to only work within that system – they’re not necessarily compatible with other strapon harnesses and bases. Suction cups are particularly useful for solo play and masturbation, as they allow you to mount your dildo to a wall, chair, or bathtub and thrust against it like you would a partner. In general, soft and squishy silicone is going to use the Shore 00 scale, while firmer dildos will use the Shore A scale.

I have personally tested a silicone dildo from Fun Factory (Fun Factory The Boss) and the suction cup base is by far the most powerful suction cup I’ve ever used. Once stuck on a flat surface, that baby isn’t going anywhere! So, remember to release the seal before you yank on it (you might drag the whole chair or dresser with you!). Having tried a Tantus dildo myself (the Tantus Cush), I know that they always deliver on high-quality silicone and generally feel very comfortable to use. The Charmer is no exception—it feels soft, body-safe, and just really nice to use. Challenge yourself or your partner with huge, wide, long or otherwise bizarre kinky sex toys from Kink Store.

These dildos – with super manly names – are modelled after natural penises and made in Europe from velvety soft Phthalate-free vinyl. Fucktools have a hole in their base, so you can attach the suction cup (included with each of these dildos). The suction cup is strong and holds extremely well on smooth surfaces.

There’s also some nice quality of life features – an ergonomic handle, quick stop button, and waterproof casing for fun in the shower. It’s hard to recommend a specific dildo as the best length and width are going to depend heavily on your experience level , and the specific shape you’re looking for. Very similar to the silk, the Temptasia Twist is a constant width dilator-style dildo by Blush. They’re also harness compatible, and have a unique twisting texture on the shaft for some additional stimulation as they slide in and out. True to its name, the Tantus Silk is a smooth, small dildo with a consistent shaft thickness that also makes for a great dilator-type toy.